The perks of being an independent masseuse
At 7th Heaven erotic massage London, we are an erotic massage agency, we have over 50 independent masseuses register in our book, today I want to share with you a blog written by one of our independent masseuses, some trouble & daily issue for her being an independent masseuse at London. We are not saying working independent is good or bad, it is just a truth of the London erotic massage industry that everybody will face everyday.
The perks of being an independent masseuse at London: The Other End Of The Line
When searching for an erotic massage online you will find escort agencies* / massage parlours and independent massage therapists / escorts and for each one, work method is very different:
London Escort Agencies/ Massage parlours, usually have one person or more answering the phone and usually they are not on the field, they organize the job and the therapist only have to worry about the service. Independent massage therapists, we are a one girl band which means that we answer the phones, give the information, do the marketing, the service, out calls etc and we also have a personal life to take care of.
Another big difference are the opening hours:
– Agencies operates or, they only take calls and bookings during specific times.
– The other option and which usually is the one independent masseuses we choose is 24/7 but, just be aware that it does not means that we are 24h at day, everyday taking calls and ready to do a massage whatever you decide to call us. It means that our working hours are flexible therefore, you should use always your common sense; you cannot expect a cheerful conversation if you are calling at 4am on a week day asking information for a possible booking on your next trip to London next month!, does not make sense right?, well it happens more often that you could image.
We are always trying to give the best erotic massage treatment, improving our business in order for you to have the best experience but, we need our clients collaboration. A masseuse has to prepare herself and her space for the service, we need time to do things without any stress or running around. If you book a massage 30 minutes before the service, you are not giving the time that a sensual massage therapist requires in order to be on his best or, if you are forcing a booking between other appointments, you cannot expect an unhurried service and extra time for you to take a nice long warm shower. We are not machines, we have our needs and one of them is to be focus and relaxed so we can connect with you and your needs.
On one occasion a new client got upset with me because he booked me for one hour, he got 30 minutes late, want to take a shower before the service and after the massage he wanted to take another shower which is perfectly fine with me but he got upset with me when, after 30 minutes on the shower I ask him to please hurry up because I had another client on his way; he booked for one hour at 4pm, he left my place at 6:30pm and of course, I was unprofessional.
As I said before, we have a personal life and we need to take our time off from time to time, we cannot be all day 24h at the studio on the computer and with the phone in our hands; Sometimes we are in our studio but many other times we are one hour away, at the University, the gym or doing our laundry. Do not use mailing forms to do a same day booking and, if we do not answer your message on a chat room in five minutes, give us a call, does not meant we are not free, means we are not at the pc.
That is not a complaint; I am positive that many of you do not know or never thought about those things before because that is part of our reality and you are aware of it once you have to deal with it, not before.
There is one last thing, we deal with phone calls every single day, with men every single day and therefore there are classical patterns that we recognize very easy, after years of experience such as the time waster, the lonely, the indecisive, the wanker etc just be clear, if you are not interested said so or do not said nothing but thanks, we are not asking for nothing else.
Many times you have to answer over and over the same questions, I am not saying you should not ask, what I am saying is that you should read the profiles, adds, websites etc and them formulate your questions. My website and publicity goes around London erotic massage service and about being an independent massage therapist for men; you will not believe me if I tell you how many times at day, after give all the information and half an hour over the phone I had been ask where the girls are from or which girls are working tonight and honestly after a long day control your temper could be challenging.
After all, we are people like you and we usually work very hard on a business that it is not easy at all.
This is not an article about never do this!!, I am not like that, Is more an advice to help you go through the booking process conscious about what is possible happening at the other side of the line. Maybe the person at the phone does not sound friendly to you, but maybe he is just tired and need a little understanding on your part.
Of course being an independent masseuse is kind of ‘free’, but it takes time and energy to arrange everything. Maybe join an good agency let them handle your booking and still work as indpendent escort / massage therapist would be a good idea? What do you think?
* There are difference between escort and erotic massage, in this article, I’m just talk about agency/independent generally, regardless the differences in details.
